How to Do Tarot Readings for Yourself: Beginner's Guide
By DailyDestiny Editorial Team
You can learn to read tarot for yourself, calmly, without memorising all 78 cards. This guide walks you through choosing a deck, shuffling, the three-card spread, the Celtic Cross and the mistakes to skip.
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What do I need to start reading tarot cards?
Imagine you have a question that keeps you awake at night. Maybe a relationship feels uncertain, or you are not sure you should leave your job. You watched a tarot video, something clicked, and now a new deck sits on your kitchen table. You want to read it yourself, but part of you is scared of getting it wrong.
The short answer: You need exactly one thing: a 78-card tarot deck. A journal helps you grow. Everything else is optional.
The Rider-Waite-Smith deck, first published in 1909 by Arthur Edward Waite with illustrations by Pamela Colman Smith, is still the best choice for beginners. The great majority of tarot books, courses and online resources refer to its images, and each of its 78 cards shows a full scene packed with symbols. Your intuition has plenty to work with before you know a single meaning.
The journal turns card-pulling into skill. Write the date, your question, the cards, your gut impressions, then the textbook meanings. Look back after a few weeks to see which impressions proved accurate. That feedback loop sharpens intuition, the way a runner gets faster by checking their times.
A reading space helps but is not essential. Some readers use a cloth to protect the cards and mark sacred space; others read on kitchen tables and park benches. Crystals, candles and incense are extras some swear by and others skip. What matters is looking at the images honestly and practising often.
Why does a deck from 1909 still lead? Rachel Pollack, whose Seventy-Eight Degrees of Wisdom has been a definitive tarot textbook since 1980, says it is because Pamela Colman Smith drew every Minor Arcana card as a story scene instead of the geometric pip patterns of older Marseilles-style decks. That made the whole deck readable by feel.
Mary K. Greer's Tarot for Your Self, first published in 1984, pioneered journaling as a study method and showed that reading for yourself is the foundation of tarot skill. Benebell Wen's Holistic Tarot gives an unusually thorough modern guide to choosing a deck, comparing popular decks and their symbol systems.
Is the Rider-Waite-Smith really the best beginner deck?
For learning, yes. Most English-language tarot resources use its images, so every book, video and course will match the cards in your hands. Once its visual language feels familiar, you carry that vocabulary to any other deck.
What if I do not connect with the Rider-Waite-Smith art style?
Choose a deck that moves you but keeps the same structure. The Modern Witch Tarot by Lisa Sterle, the Light Seer's Tarot by Chris-Anne and the This Might Hurt Tarot by Isabella Rotman all keep the Rider-Waite-Smith meanings with contemporary art.
Do I need to have my deck gifted to me?
No. This myth has no historical basis and likely arose when decks were expensive and rare. Buy one you love and start reading today. Waiting for a gift only delays your practice.
How should I store and care for my tarot deck?
Keep it in a pouch or box, or wrapped in silk or cotton, away from dust, extreme temperatures and humidity. Some readers keep clear quartz or amethyst with it. The best care is regular use: a deck you handle daily becomes an extension of your intuition.
How do I shuffle and draw tarot cards properly?
If your hands feel clumsy shuffling 78 oversized cards, you are in good company. There is no single correct method. What feels natural to you matters more than any ritual.
Overhand: hold the deck in one hand and pull small packets from the top with the other. It is gentlest on cards and easiest for big tarot decks. The riffle shuffle works if your hands are large and the cards flexible, but many readers avoid it to prevent bending.
Pile: deal cards face-down into several piles, then gather them. It mixes thoroughly.
Washing: spread the cards face-down and swirl them with both hands, like stirring sand on a beach. This naturally creates reversed cards, if you want them.
Shuffle until it feels finished, usually thirty seconds to two minutes. Some readers stop when a card falls out and take that as a sign; others shuffle a set number of times. Then cut into three piles with your non-dominant hand, reassemble in any order and draw from the top. One card is powerful for daily practice. Three cards give a specific question structure without overwhelm.
Mary K. Greer describes shuffling as the bridge from ordinary awareness into the receptive state reading needs. She suggests closing your eyes, taking three deep breaths and holding your question in mind while your hands mix. Benebell Wen's Holistic Tarot notes that the washing method resembles how lots were cast in older divination. Rachel Pollack observes that sensing when the shuffle is complete is itself a small act of intuition, and practice for trusting quiet inner signals.
Should I let the querent shuffle the cards?
Many readers invite the querent to shuffle so their energy enters the deck; others have them cut it instead. Both work, as long as the person asking has some physical contact with the cards. When you read for yourself, you are both reader and querent.
What does it mean when a card falls out while shuffling?
Many readers treat a jumper card as a message that literally insisted on being seen, and add it to the spread or keep it as extra information. Others put it back. Neither is wrong; just choose a rule and keep it.
How do I handle reversed cards?
Use the washing method, or rotate half the deck 180 degrees after shuffling. If you prefer all cards upright, turn each one the right way as you draw. Many beginners skip reversals until the upright meanings feel solid.
What are the best tarot spreads for beginners?
You do not need ten cards to get an honest answer. For most beginners, the smallest spreads teach the most.
The single-card daily pull is the most underrated and most powerful. Draw one card each morning, study the picture, notice how you feel and how its themes might show up in your day. Write it down, then reflect that evening on how it actually appeared. Meeting one card deeply builds familiarity faster than anything else. It is like making one real friend instead of shaking hands with a crowd.
The three-card spread comes next. Past-Present-Future is the classic, but Situation-Challenge-Advice often gives you something to act on. For love, try You-The Other Person-The Relationship Dynamic. For a decision, try Option A-Option B-What You Need to Know. Three cards teach you to read cards in relationship to each other, the skill under every larger spread.
The five-card cross adds depth: a central card for the core issue, cards above and below for what you are conscious and unconscious of, and cards left and right for past influences and future direction. It is simpler than the ten-card Celtic Cross, which Rachel Pollack recommends saving until you have at least three months of regular practice.
Rachel Pollack popularized the idea that simpler spreads often give deeper readings, because they force you to draw more meaning from fewer cards. In Seventy-Eight Degrees of Wisdom she shows how one card can be read for twenty minutes. Mary K. Greer's 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card offers methods to deepen any spread, including storytelling, dialogue with card figures and body-based responses. Benebell Wen calls the three-card spread the workhorse of professional reading, able to address almost any question.
When should I attempt the Celtic Cross spread?
Its ten cards cover your situation, challenges, conscious and unconscious influences, past, future, self-image, environment, hopes and fears, and outcome. Try it once you can read three-card spreads without reaching for a book, usually after two to three months of daily practice.
Can I create my own tarot spreads?
Yes. Decide its purpose, give each position a specific meaning and test it several times. Spreads built around the questions you keep asking often beat generic layouts, and many professional readers develop signature spreads over the years.
How many cards should I draw per reading?
One for daily guidance, three to five for a specific question, the ten-card Celtic Cross for a complex situation. More cards do not mean a better reading. If you need a clarifier, keep it to one or two so the message stays clear.
What is a significator card and do I need one?
It is a card chosen to represent the querent, placed before drawing begins. Traditionally it was a court card matching their looks or sign. Many modern readers skip it because it removes a card from the pool. If you use one, choose it for personality or the question's theme, not appearance.
How do I interpret tarot cards without memorizing all 78 meanings?
If memorising 78 meanings makes your heart sink, here is the relief: you do not have to. Tarot runs on a system that produces the meanings, a bit like how a few chords let you play hundreds of songs.
The four suits stand for four elements and areas of life. Wands are fire: passion, creativity and career ambition. Cups are water: emotions, relationships and intuition. Swords are air: intellect, conflict and communication. Pentacles are earth: material resources, health and practical matters.
The numbers add the stage. Aces are pure potential and new beginnings. Twos, choices and balance. Threes, growth and collaboration. Fours, stability and sometimes stagnation. Fives, conflict and disruption. Sixes restore harmony and generosity. Sevens test faith and strategy. Eights bring movement and mastery. Nines approach completion and solitude. Tens are culmination and excess.
Put them together. The Three of Cups is growth and collaboration plus emotions and relationships: celebration among friends. The Seven of Swords is testing and strategy plus intellect and conflict: deception or cunning tactics. You work meanings out on the spot instead of recalling them.
Rachel Pollack's number-based approach to the Minor Arcana revolutionized tarot teaching by making the system learnable rather than memorizable. Mary K. Greer added a numerology technique: add the digits of your birth date until you reach a number between 1 and 22, and that Major Arcana card is your lifetime significator. Benebell Wen's Holistic Tarot maps each suit to a classical element, a season, a direction, a time of day and a psychological function, a dense web that gives every card meaning in many contexts.
How do court cards fit into the system?
They combine suit energy with maturity. Pages are the student or messenger. Knights are the energy in action, sometimes to excess. Queens master the suit's inward side, Kings its outward side. So the Page of Cups is an open, dreamy emotional beginner, and the King of Swords is a master of intellectual authority and decisive speech.
Should I read tarot intuitively or by the book?
Both. Use traditional meanings as your foundation and layer intuition on top, noticing what draws your eye before checking a reference. Readers who skip study give vague readings; readers who ignore intuition give mechanical ones.
What do I do when a card makes no sense in context?
Sit with the confusion rather than forcing it. Look again with fresh eyes and ask whether it points to something you have not considered. The most confusing card often carries the key message because it challenges your assumptions. Still stuck? Draw one clarifier.
How should a beginner learn the 22 Major Arcana cards?
The Major Arcana are the cards that make you catch your breath when they land, so meet them in small groups rather than straight from The Fool to The World. Contrast is what makes meanings stick.
Start with I to IV: The Magician, The High Priestess, The Empress and The Emperor. Side by side they show active will, receptive knowing, fertile nurture and imposed structure, a distinction that carries you through a large share of readings.
Next, the virtue cards: Justice, Strength and Temperance, for accountability, gentle power and patient blending.
Then the ones that frighten beginners: Death, The Tower and The Devil. Sit with them until the fear wears off.
Finish with the celestial run: The Star, The Moon and The Sun, moving from fragile hope through confusion into clarity.
The Fool's Journey, which reads the Majors as one soul's progress from card 0 to card 21, maps how these clusters connect. The full walkthrough is in Major Arcana Tarot Cards: Complete Meanings & Interpretations.
For daily study, look at one Major card for two full minutes without naming it, write three details you never noticed, then read the meaning and mark where it matched your impression.
Count the Majors in your spread before reading any single card. A spread full of them is read as a situation driven by forces larger than daily choice, asking how you will meet it rather than steer it. Mostly Minor cards point to a situation still in your hands. Rachel Pollack's arrangement of the Majors into three rows of seven, from the outer world through inner confrontation to spiritual forces, gives you a filing system for the sequence. Mary K. Greer's birth card technique, reducing your birth date to a Major Arcana number, hands you a personal first card to study in depth.
Which Major Arcana cards should a beginner learn first?
The Magician, The High Priestess, The Empress and The Emperor (I to IV). They appear constantly, set the deck's basic polarities of doing versus knowing and nurturing versus governing, and every later Major reads against them. Add The Wheel of Fortune (cycles you cannot control) and The Hermit (the retreat you choose). Leave The Hanged Man and Judgement until later, since they describe states you may not have lived through yet.
Why do Death and The Tower scare beginners, and should they?
Their pictures are literal in a deck that otherwise speaks in metaphor: a skeletal rider, a lightning-struck building. Take a breath. In tarot practice neither is read as physical catastrophe. Death marks a necessary ending and the clearing it makes; The Tower marks the sudden collapse of a structure that was already false. See Death Tarot Card Meaning: Transformation, Endings & Rebirth and The Tower Tarot Card Meaning: Upright, Reversed & Love.
How do I develop my intuition for more accurate tarot readings?
Maybe you worry you are just not an intuitive person. In tarot, intuition is not a gift for the chosen few. It is a skill, and like a muscle it grows with practice.
Scan your body. Before checking any meaning, hold the card. Does your chest tighten or open? Does your stomach clench or warm? These responses carry information your analytical mind misses. Journal them, and over months they become your personal intuitive vocabulary.
Let your eyes wander. Study the card for sixty seconds without thinking of its name or meaning. The detail that catches you often carries the message for that question. The same card speaks differently each time because your unconscious steers your eye to what matters now.
Speak before you edit. First words carry intuitive weight; self-censorship kills the flow. Say what you see, however strange, then refine. Many experienced readers report their most accurate insights came from impressions they almost dismissed as too random or too bold.
Five minutes of daily meditation clears mental noise. And sleep on difficult readings: revisit them in the morning, once your unconscious has had time to work.
Mary K. Greer's 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card is a definitive guide to building intuition through exercises such as stepping into the card like a painting, talking with its figures, and reading it through emotion, color and story. Rachel Pollack stresses that intuition and traditional knowledge work together: the deeper you know a card's symbols, the more your intuition has to work with. Benebell Wen draws on Eastern and Western esoteric traditions to recommend qi cultivation alongside tarot study, arguing that energetic sensitivity improves accuracy.
How do I know if an impression is intuition or wishful thinking?
Intuition tends to arrive suddenly, feel neutral or surprising, and sometimes contradict what you want. Wishful thinking builds slowly, feels charged and confirms your desires. Compare journaled impressions with outcomes over time, and be honest with yourself about which kind proves reliable.
Can meditation improve my tarot readings?
Yes. Even five minutes a day reduces mental noise and trains what reading needs: noticing without judging, focusing without forcing, staying open. Many readers meditate briefly before reading. Consistency matters more than duration.
What is the role of emotion in tarot interpretation?
Your emotions are data. If a card that usually means disruption fills you with relief, that surprise matters: you may welcome the change it describes. Never push reactions away. Note them and weave them into the reading.
How do I put together a complete tarot reading from start to finish?
Here is how it all comes together the next time you sit down with that question on your mind. Six steps: settle, state the question, shuffle, lay the spread face-down, read position by position, then read the cards against each other.
Settle with three slow breaths and the deck in your hands, so you are not reading while your mind is still in your inbox.
State the question aloud and write it at the top of a journal page. Half the confusion beginners blame on the cards comes from a question that quietly changed shape mid-reading.
Shuffle until it feels finished, cut into three piles with your non-dominant hand, reassemble, and lay the spread face-down before turning anything.
Read each position, naming it before the card: Situation, Four of Pentacles. Give every card its own sentence first.
Read the group, where the real reading happens. Four of Pentacles, Eight of Cups and Knight of Wands as Situation-Challenge-Advice reads as a tight grip on what you have, a growing pull to leave it, and an instruction to move decisively instead of weighing it forever.
Close by naming one thing you will actually do, and write it all down to check in a month.
Reading the cards against each other is the step beginners skip, and it turns three separate horoscopes into one story. Practitioners look at four patterns. Suit dominance shows where the situation really lives: three Swords in a five-card spread means thought and communication, whatever the question claimed. Repeated numbers matter: two or three Fives signal open disruption. Gaze direction counts: figures turning away from a neighbor suggest avoidance, turning toward it, engagement. And the Major to Minor ratio shows how much is yours to steer.
How long should a beginner tarot reading take?
About fifteen to twenty minutes for three cards and five for a daily pull. If you finish a three-card spread in four minutes, you probably read three keywords, not a spread. Out of words? Describe what is physically happening in each scene. A Celtic Cross deserves forty-five minutes or more, one reason to leave it until later.
What are the most common tarot reading mistakes beginners make?
Every reader makes these, so think of this as a kind friend pointing them out early.
Yes-or-no questions. The most damaging one. Tarot speaks in story and nuance, and Will I get the job? squeezes it into a coin toss. Ask What do I need to understand about this career opportunity? and the cards can speak to your strengths, blind spots, hidden dynamics and best approach.
Too many clarifiers. Each extra card adds complexity, not clarity. Sit with a puzzling reading first. The confusion may be the message, especially if The Moon or The High Priestess appears.
Panicking at scary cards. Death, The Tower and the Ten of Swords look frightening but stand for necessary transformation, freedom from false structures and the end of suffering. Ten of Swords Tarot Meaning: Rock Bottom, Endings & New Dawn covers the last in full. Fear creates blind spots.
Treating reversals as purely negative. A reversal often means energy turned inward, delayed or redirected, not cancelled.
Asking the same question again. Asking about your relationship today will not improve on yesterday's reading. Trust it, and come back when circumstances truly change.
Comparing yourself to experts. Skill comes through hundreds of readings over years. Every expert once held a new deck with nervous hands too.
Rachel Pollack warns against demanding a clear, actionable message from every reading; some are meant to unfold over days or weeks. Mary K. Greer names perfectionism the beginner's greatest enemy and urges treating each reading as practice, not performance. Benebell Wen addresses cultural appropriation, advising beginners to learn the Western esoteric tradition tarot came from before blending in other traditions, and to approach every spiritual system with respect and study.
How often should I do tarot readings?
A daily one-card pull is ideal for skill. For a specific question, read once and let the guidance play out. Asking repeatedly within days signals anxiety rather than inquiry, and the cards tend to grow less coherent. Weekly or monthly check-ins work well for life themes.
Is it bad to read tarot when I am emotional?
Strong feelings can fuel or distort a reading. Real distress can bring strikingly accurate readings, since emotional investment opens intuitive channels. But if you are too upset to accept an unwelcome message, wait until you are calmer.
Should I cleanse my tarot deck and how?
It is a personal preference, not a requirement. Common methods: knock on the deck three times, pass it through incense smoke, leave a crystal on it overnight, or shuffle with the intention of resetting it. Cleanse when the deck feels sluggish or after a heavy reading. The ritual serves your psychology as much as any metaphysical purpose.
What should I do when I keep drawing the same tarot card?
In tarot practice, a recurring card is treated as a message you have not acted on yet, not a shuffling fault. Stop reading about the situation and study that card for a week: sit with the image, write what it asks of you, and notice where its pattern shows up in daily life. Many readers keep a list of recurring cards, since they tend to map onto long-term personal themes. If Three of Cups keeps surfacing, Three of Cups Tarot: Celebration, Friendship & Joy gives you more to sit with.
Questions people ask
How do I do a tarot reading for myself?
Find a quiet space and form a clear, open-ended question. Shuffle with that question in mind, cut the deck into three piles and put them back together. Draw one card or a three-card spread. Study each picture before checking its traditional meaning, then journal your first impressions next to the textbook ones. The skill deepens every time you practise.
What does the 3-card tarot spread mean?
The classic version lays cards left to right as Past, Present and Future. The Past card shows what shaped your situation, the Present card where you stand now, and the Future card where things are heading if current energies continue. Other frames include Situation-Challenge-Advice, Mind-Body-Spirit, and What You Want-What Stands in the Way-What You Need to Know.
Can you read your own tarot cards?
Yes, and it is one of the best ways to build skill. Mary K. Greer built a whole book, Tarot for Your Self, around it, treating self-reading as the foundation of tarot study, not a lesser version of reading for clients. Come with real curiosity rather than looking for what you want to hear, and journal every reading to track patterns. Many professional readers began by reading only for themselves.
Which tarot deck should a beginner buy?
The Rider-Waite-Smith deck, illustrated by Pamela Colman Smith and first published in 1909, because most tarot books and courses use its images. Its Minor Arcana cards show full scenes instead of simple pip patterns, so they are easier to read by feel. The Modern Witch Tarot, the Light Seer's Tarot and the Morgan-Greer Tarot follow the same visual tradition.
How long does it take to learn tarot?
Most beginners can give a meaningful three-card reading after a few weeks of daily practice. Fluency across all 78 cards usually takes one to two years. Learn the four suit elements and the Major Arcana first, then the court cards and the numbers from Ace to Ten. One card a week, with journaling, meditation and a daily pull, is a common rhythm. Reading about your real life speeds things up.
Do I need to be psychic to read tarot?
No. Tarot is a symbolic language anyone can learn, like music or poetry. The cards give a structure for your own intuition, pattern spotting and psychological insight. Some readers have strong psychic impressions; others work through symbols and storytelling. Both give valuable readings. Psychic ability may develop with long practice, but you do not need it to start.
What is the difference between Major and Minor Arcana?
The Major Arcana has 22 numbered cards (0 to 21) for big life themes, spiritual lessons and archetypal energies. The Minor Arcana has 56 cards in four suits: Wands (fire, action), Cups (water, emotions), Swords (air, thought) and Pentacles (earth, material), covering everyday matters. Readers take a Major-heavy spread to mean significant karmic forces are at work, and a Minor majority to mean the situation is within your direct control.
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